Brahamacari ashram is better than grhastha ashramas
Srila Prabhupada wrote that brahmacari
and sannyasa life are in essence the same and that it was therefore not
necessary for every brahmacari to take sannyasa.
Indeed, in many ways the
brahmacari-asrama is the best for spiritual advancement and developing Vaisnava
qualities. It facilitates the essential quality of humility, for the brahmacari
has neither the possessions of a grhastha or the status of a sannyasi, both of
which can foster false pride. Brahmacari life is generally considerably more
simple and austere than that of sannyasis in the modern day. Brahmacaris can
remain less entangled than sannyasis in the social affairs of householders, who
prefer to go to sannyasis for blessings and advice, and to call them to their
homes and feed them. The brahmacari-asrama is also intrinsically the best for
nurturing surrender to guru.
Therefore, more important than formally
taking sannyasa is the firm decision to stay brahmacari, with determination
never to engage in sex life again. With such a conviction, a brahmacari
practices Krsna consciousness with deep faith and commitment. If one wants to
stay brahmacari, a whimsical approach will not do. What is required is firm,
steady service, regular, potent sadhana, and a deep vision of Krsna
consciousness acquired from intensive study of Srila Prabhupada's books.
From BIKC by HH Bhakti Vikasa Swami